Carolyn Hax: Husband can’t make decisions without changing his mind
| A husband "can't make a decision without changing it," and now his spouse is constantly angry. |
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| | | |  |  | | Advice to help you tackle life's problems. | | | | | |  (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Adapted from an online discussion. Hi Carolyn! My husband can't make a decision without changing it, often several times, after (in my mind) the decision has been made and it's time to move on. The stress of changing things back and forth is worse to me than making a less-than-optimal decision. I really want to move on. Whereas for him this is almost a reflex that is part of his decision-making process. It's making me angry all the time. Any ideas to help me reframe this so I can avoid losing my mind? His annoying habits have definitely grated on me more since too much pandemic togetherness. How much I should try to change vs. try to deal? — Angry | | | Want more?Carolyn's been writing her advice column for two decades. Explore the archives below. | | | | | | | | | |
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