 (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Adapted from an online discussion. Dear Carolyn: My wife and I have been married for years and have a dream life together — beautiful child, nice house, great jobs, we have fun and enjoy spending time together. There's no reason to worry … but I do anyway. In the past, the majority of my relationships were awful — I was cheated on, lied to, and used. To my knowledge my wife has never done anything like that and has never given me a reason to distrust her. But I worry, mainly about her interactions on social media. I've been in counseling for a while now, but there are still many days in which I have doubts. She always indulges me and will give me her phone and say I'm welcome to look through it, she has nothing to hide. So I do. I really don't even know what I'm asking; I just hate that she has to keep reassuring and proving herself to me when she doesn't deserve it, but I also can't seem to stop. I worry she's going to get sick of it or that she thinks this means I don't love her. — Can't Stop Worrying | 
