 (Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | Hi Carolyn: My husband went to a party at his men's club this week. Wives were invited but I decided not to go for other reasons, and I also said I don't think it was a good idea for everybody to be in a closed space like that, given covid. Three days later, I see an email from the head of the men's club informing all the members that several people tested positive after the party. Two days after that, I see he deleted the email and has not said a word to me. (It's a business account and I'm the admin, so I see all emails.) So what do you think of a spouse who would: (a) not tell his wife, our children, employees, customers? His job entails going into customers' houses; (b) not get tested; (c) not quarantine? I am absolutely sick over his behavior. Should I confront him? I know it's going to be World War III because he never accepts responsibility for anything and will have 1,001 excuses and twist it around onto me. — S. | 
