 (Nick Galifianakis/For The Washington Post) | Adapted from an online discussion. Dear Carolyn: My very good friend is dating a man who is … horrible. She has described him as emotionally abusive, manipulative, a liar, and untrustworthy. When she finally broke up with him, I rejoiced! When she got back with him two weeks later, I despaired. I told her once or twice how I felt about this guy, but backed off when it was clear they were sticking it out. Now though, she wants me and my boyfriend to have brunch with the two of them. I cannot do it. I've never met this man, but I do know he treats my friend like garbage and the idea of sitting across from him eating eggs is giving me heartburn. I know I need to decline this invitation, but I have no idea how to do it. I understand saying no will hurt my friend, I'm prepared for that outcome, but I don't know how to turn her down without going through all the reasons her boyfriend disgusts me. I need help! — Disgusted | 
